From an encouraging word, to making sure meals are being looked after. Truth is, the rat race isn’t easy. Just like a modern woman battling with the balance of working and home, I can see that the modern man is facing that as well.
My hubby is a hands on father. I remember in the first 6 months that Asher was born, hubby said he felt that he could not do much. In fact, he did. He changed Asher’s first diaper, get peed on, and practiced unconditional love when Asher screamed for 3 hours when he was born in his arms, while I was in theatre. At home, he does the laundry, emptied the bins and water the plants. He make us breakfast once a week. He wakes up in the middle of the night when Asher wakes, even if it is to make me a hot drink or to cuddle Asher while I have a loo break.
These days, he is even more hands on with Asher. No matter how tired he is when he returns home, he would spend time playing and cuddling him. I know that in the morning, he would leave work a little later just so he can have some time with him.
With each family, there are challenges. Ours is no different. Sometimes I think hubby faces the same challenges I do in balancing it all. I see it in his face. Choosing work or being at home a few minutes early. Sleeping in an extra few minutes or getting up to empty the dishwasher. Replying that email or reading a book. Having a child also means the focus is a lot on him, and our relationship can get neglected. I cannot put more on him because I know his time is filled. That can be a spiralling cycle where I feel tired from not asking from help.
I’m grateful though that, those choices he make made us where we are and who we are.
I make this loaf for a few reasons. The biggest one is that it is a portable snack or breakfast item for hubby. The other, was the celebrate our friends who visited from Singapore a while back. They stayed for breakfast and we had a ball. Nourishing my friends’ tummy resulted in me and Asher feeling nourished with adult company and friendship. Besides, carrot and basil is a combination that can’t go wrong. More veggies in the morning? yes please!
- 2 carrots shredded and chopped
- 1/4 cup coconut flour
- 1/4 cup desiccated coconut
- 1 tablespoon of psyllium husk
- 5 eggs
- 1/4 cup almond milk
- 1 tablespoons of dried basil
- small bunch of fresh basil
- 1/4 cup semi sundried tomatoes
- seeds for topping
- salt and pepper
- Preheat Oven to 180C. Line a loaf tin with baking paper.
- Whisk eggs and milk together. In a bigger bowl, add all dried ingredients. Fold wet to dry. Spoon to prepared loaf tin. Sprinkle seeds on top. Bake for 40-45 mins